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SM has certain positive meanings to individuals and society
(1) Many people have misunderstood SM (sadomasochists), regard it as heresy, and call it perverted. Most of the people in the SM circle also hide their secrets and dare not reveal them to the world, as if they have committed a heinous crime. In fact, SM (sadomasochism) is an advanced sexual method, which has several benefits to people and society. For example: 1. For M (masochists), SM is an effective means of relieving stress . People have a sense of pressure, which stems from being human. You are human and you are stressed. In the SM game, after M enters the role, he gives up all the qualifications of being a human being, including dignity and will, and becomes a slave at the mercy of the master, a dog (some simply become the master's toilet). At this time, all the pressures he endured in life, work, and family were transformed into invisible, and all the pressures became zero. There is no need to think, to calculate, to weigh the pros and cons, all you need to do is obey. Suffering all kinds of humiliation on the surface, in fact, he has the pleasure of “letting go of everything” in his heart. The absolute freedom of the body is exchanged for the absolute freedom of the mind. 2. For S (the abuser), I abuse therefore I exist. The S in SM obtains a kind of spiritual and physical double happiness by abusing, insulting, controlling, dominating, playing with, and suppressing M. In this process, she will feel the importance of her existence more than at any other time. M's absolute obedience to her will give her an extraordinary sense of accomplishment, thus sweeping away the unhappiness and worries in life. 3. SM is not only a kind of role-playing, but also a kind of role replacement. Generally speaking, in SM, the status of S and M is just opposite to their status in life. In SM, the status of S is high and the status of M is extremely low. In reality, M's social status is often relatively high, mainly white-collar workers and the middle class, and they are in a dominant and leading position at work. S, on the other hand, has an ordinary social status and is dominated and led in daily life. Everyone plays different roles in this society. If one is in only one position and one state for a long time, one's mentality will inevitably become unbalanced, and an unbalanced mentality will lead to a deformed life. Therefore, SM is also a way to balance the mind. 4. The above three points are for individuals. For society, SM has two functions. First, it can reduce the occurrence of violent incidents. In social violence incidents and domestic violence incidents, the party who takes the initiative to attack and perpetrate violence has a tendency to S, but he has no way to vent it. If he meets ordinary people who don't like being abused, there will be bad consequences. A trivial matter It could lead to catastrophe. In SM, S met M, who likes to be abused. The two took what they needed, relied on each other, and were released together, objectively reducing the occurrence of violent incidents. Second, because SM is a kind of “sexual desexualization”, through the way of role-playing, using sadism and masochism as means to vent sexual desire, so most SM activities do not include sexual intercourse, so to a certain extent , SM can also play a role in preventing the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. It can be seen that not only should SM not be discriminated against, but it should be advocated vigorously.
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